Signs of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence continues to haunt millions of people throughout the United States every day, and unfortunately it continues to go unreported. Many victims of domestic violence never report the violence and abuse, usually because they are afraid of making the situation worse or because they believe the violence and abuse is going to stop. Sadly, the abuse doesn’t stop and the cycle of abuse continues to turn. If you suspect someone you know is being abused, neglected or mistreated, there are signs you can look for that may indicate domestic violence. These signs include:
- Personality changes, such as depression, acting withdrawn, etc.
- Low self-esteem
- Self-blame, being overly apologetic
- Absences from work or school
- Injuries or bruises, especially black eyes, red or purple markings around the neck or arm, sprained wrists or ankles, broken ribs, etc.
- Constant excuses for new injuries or bruises
- Trying to hide or cover up injuries or bruises
- Not having an opinion, being indecisive or passive, or not knowing how one feels
- Lack of friends, or being isolated from friends, relatives, and coworkers
If you notice these signs in a friend or loved one, try asking if there is something wrong and if they want to talk about it. Often times, victims of domestic violence don’t talk about what’s going on at home because they are ashamed to bring it up or don’t know how to bring it up. By reaching out to them, you will let your friend or loved one know it’s okay to let the walls come down and get the help they need. There is a chance your friend will not talk about what’s happening at home, and never will. In these situations, there are still ways you can get your friend or loved one the help he or she needs. To learn more,
contact the Law Office of Michael R. Young. As an experienced
Riverside domestic violence attorney, Mr. Young has helped many clients obtain protection and relief from violence and abuse, and would be happy to help you in any way he can.